I'm just thinking, it makes sense to be sure that the time/effort/energy actually WILL do anything to help your case with your S's. Will having evidence about the A do anything (legally speaking) for your custody case?
Apologies if you mentioned this before - I've read through some of your older posts but not all of them. Have you talked to your L about the best things to do to help ensure you get 50% custody? (besides, of course, continuing to be the best Dad you can be!)
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread