If I'm not mistaken your H did exactly as you say at a point where things were not running smoothly. In other words, I almost wish W and I could have a blow up so I can accomplish this without it seeming like it's coming out of the blue.
But maybe that's too weak of an approach. My BIL and I had this same discussion over the weekend. I told him that I just don't know how to stop "being a husband". How do I pull the rug out from under her when there are no strong outward signs that it's necessary?
It seems I've become too comfortable with the present sitch as well...
MMC,
I tell ya I think you are that little voice in my head.. I could have written the same exact thing... this is also how I feel. wow we are a pair huh?..
But unforunatly I think Mom is right..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know