Sues,

Your h is just unbelievable. I just don't know what to say at this point. to be with you at concert and being affectionate, then to go off to the bathroom to pick someone else up.. what a creep.. im sorry sue.. that's lower than low. I don't see things changing with him anytime soon, especially since he is not even willing to get help for it.. His actions point to an obsessive cheater, and that doesn't go away by itself.

He has not respect for you or your D3.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but this is truly a destructive relationship, and he is not going to get better unless he's willing to admit to his issues and get help for them.

Yes, he might have hugged and kissed you, but what does that mean? that he has no problem to have his cake and eat it too. Best of both worlds.

I don't know what else to say, this is unhealthy for you and I don't want to see you hurt anymore.

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.