Yeah, shes getting help. She is currently in a 7 day detox before she goes to a primary rehab facility. I have talked to her everyday and each day comes new admissions, she says she is so disgusted with herself. Its so amazing how after 12 years she is so far gone from the woman i married, so much damage throughout the marriage, and now this. Nothing could have prepared me for this and after living in this nightmare so long I thought I knew it all, knew how to cope with anything. Gotta be strong for my girls now, who knows what permanent damage has been done to them too, they are finally starting to talk about the string of men they have been seeing, their confusion, their fear, etc. God, what a mess.


Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07