lwb - not at all! I've done my own share of obsessing about it, believe me.
NCB Hmm.. I hope you're right. Your W is acting SO illogically that I wonder if having "evidence" of the PA will make any difference in her behavior anyway (if the courts there don't care... I know they don't around here unless the OP is a danger to the kids.. makes me sick). If there's a chance that the courts will actually care it may be worthwhile though.
I hope you're keeping track of the times your W voluntarily brings the kids over - definitely helps dispute any claims that she thinks you're an "unfit" parent.
On the custody - does your state favor the 50/50 arrangement? I hope so!! Can you put a mileage "limit" into the sep/D agreement? I know I've seen that around here before (not just "across state lines," but rules about the city and/or school district that the kids have to remain in).
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
