I am so happy for you, my situation is not as well (yet?). I would appreciate you continue to stop by my thread and offer your great insight.
God Speed
Me 42 W 27 Married: 6 years Together: 7 years Daughter: 3 years Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country) EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07) Papers served on 2/6/2008
Reading the original thread it looks that our situation are similar but we get different results, It makes me think that maybe there is a chance for reconciliation but I am doing something wrong and missed on the chances.
I know that what happened on the weekend happened because I snooped on her and I found out about the texting, although it was not new for me but the frequency and the messages themselves surprised me.
I am in the dark again
Me 42 W 27 Married: 6 years Together: 7 years Daughter: 3 years Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country) EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07) Papers served on 2/6/2008
Lan, I was begining to wonder again what the chances of DB success was so this is encouraging. I've just finished reading ALL of your previous thread and drawn some parallels with mine. Will catch up with your latest posts on my sitch later today. There seems to have been a sudden quantum leap by your W on wanting to talk about the R/M - something she didn't show any signs of getting to earlier - perhaps you want to elaborate on that a bit when you start your next thread or just before ending this one. Again you've traveled a long road so watch out for backsliding; R can be like pulling teeth so take it easy. We'll be cheering you all the way to the finish line (and I don't mean the 10k race).
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
I've read back through my last thread and although W was involved with OM up until 12/12/07, she was actually showing small signs of moving towards me at the back end of November. I think she had a "Rude" awakening on her last encounter with OM when he was too lazy to perform (yep it pains me to say that) and she realise that family was important than hotel sex.
Since then W has been expecting me to pursue her but because I've got very good with my PMA, GAL and Act as if, it's left her a bit confused. (The old Lan would be begging by now). It's got to the point where she had about R cos she didn't know what my intentions were and she could see me moving on.
Ok before weekend I'll post on your threads some of my top tips, some not strictly DB but all the things which worked for me.
