Okay, spying is not good. But I think it is time I hire a PI.

I just can't stand still and watch my W lie to my face while she continues with her plans to replace me as my S's father. W swears there is no PA and that they're just friends, and tells me there is no chance therefore that she would ever remarry or have another father-figure in my S's lives. She won't even acknowledge the EA.

She doesn't know the extent of the evidence I have against her on the EA. And something just came up that urges me to get intel on the PA. So I have asked a paralegal friend for a referral on a PI.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.