Nothing new to report, really. Another comment yesterday from H about my "underthings" (lol). Over the weekend I bought a ton of new underwear, nightgowns, etc. And have been making it a habit to wear them. My goal is to get all new matching bras and underwear - I've always wanted to do that - and never have. I'm considering it galing and it appears to be working. I don't think my H has ever commented on my undies in all of our 4.5 years of marriage - perhaps hanes cotton bikinis weren't doing it for him...
I do know that this is a bandaid on a gushing wound - or perhaps a bandaid on the leg when the arm is bleeding. I'm not really fixing the issue, but I am concentrating on what makes me happy and matching bras and panties does it - ladies, tell me you understand?? Please. And if giving my H a show in the process sparks some interest so be it.
In the meantime, I'm still thinking about the best way to approach this. I think I may need to read DB again with this in mind. I mentioned that awhile ago and never did it - I think this is the week. I want to be in the right frame of mind whether I suggest dialoguing retro style or just outright conversation...bleh
Last edited by ediemarie; 02/05/0803:32 PM.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley