Reclaiming myself and my life

[faithisbelieving]

To all...I make the same request as bworl. Frank_d has made OUR LIVES more important than his own...and probably to the detriment of his M. Imagine all the time lost from all the phone calls he fielded from us and all the sitch's he followed. He probably should have been spending more time on himself and his M than he did on all of us. Although where I am in MY sitch is dark and gloomy, I wouldn't be as 'good' as I was if it weren't for he and others.

Yes...frank can get pissy. I almost left a phone call on him..but..he knows when he is and he apologized...and respect him for it. Having gone thru my own financial crisis (and most likely with more to come), I know what it is like to feel helpless and lost.

There have been quite a handful of people with whom I've 'bumped heads with', yet, they almost all stayed with me and I love and respect them for that. Isn't that the power of the people who are here? They have the unique ability to look at themselves and say "I need to change". They have the compassion to stay thru utter hell to save their marriages. The can 'electronically' put their arms on our shoulders and say "I feel your pain but I am here and I care."

Frank_d is going thru what we all have, not only for a second time but now faced with D.

Someone get amyC back please...amyC..PLEASE hang here. Let's stick with frank. I know I will. He saved my life.

He who saves one life saves the world entire.

FIB