Thanks for the input Woog. I'll be sure to play it cool.
I hadn't read the Listening Reflectively thing before Jenny, so thanks for posting that. It definitely makes some good points and I'll try to follow it's advice. Not always the easiest thing to do though in the heat of the moment.
I'm starting to believe that what she has to say can't be that bad. She called me last night to let me know what the doctor said and then she started to chit chat. I was over at my neighbors house though, so we didn't talk long. I tried calling her back later, but she must have already been asleep. So, why would she do that if she's going to tell me she wants a divorce today? Also, she told my neighbor in an email a couple weeks ago that she was thinking about coming back home. I know that things can change pretty quickly in a WAWs mind, but I find some hope in her actions.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008