Lou, the only problem I see with you is that you even had to ASK us who was the crazy one. That is the problem with living too long with someone crazy. I know, I lived* too long with an alcoholic - they are very good at twisting things around so their crazy world-view is right and your sane look at life is wrong. If that doesn't make you wind up crazy I don't know what does.

* the past tense is due to the fact he has stopped drinking, not that we don't live together anymore.

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong