plentyhope, the way your ex pressured and pursuit should tell all of us how not get a spouse back. As Michele mentioned, that is the best way of ensuring that you will push them farther and farther away. It should remind us all, that DBing techniques are the best way to keep the odds of getting back the greatest. No amount of pleading, begging, guilt trips will bring them back. No, the only effective way is that they must come back by their decision alone. Thanks for your story.
