Unbelievable - aren't they. The family plan - how low can you go. I feel like emailing H back the cell phone bill from August when they were carrying on when we were together showing all the texting charges and her cell phone over the plan charges. I really want to. But instead of him taking a look and saying to himself oh shes right - I have some nerve - He will twist it around as always - see I asked her nicely and this is what I get and there she goes bringing up the affair again. And I will just be giving him the satisfaction that he can annoy me still or show that I was hurt but I am so tempted. I called H today on voice mail and said sure you can see D - can you pick her up from aftercare so I have some time to run errands and what time are you bringing her back? No response - never showed. Then I receive email I did not respond to his email from Friday soon enough. We are supposed to have set visitation - he does not want set visitation. HE wants the freedom to schedule visitation whenever it suits him. He cancelled his set visitation 3 weeks in a row and now want to shedule visits here and there when he feels like it and if I dont respond promptly he gets pissed off and does not respond. His last visit was 1/3 - over one month. This is what is so frustrating - I am dealing with a person that is so selfish and selfcentered. Its everything - the gall of the cell phone bill and not taking into account he gave his lover a third cell and he has the nerve to email me about a few 411 directory call and the visitation - here I am trying to accomodate his schedule on sometimes a days notice when set visitation would be to my advantave because then at least I could have some time to myself and plan something. SO Im doing him a favor but all he sees is oh shes giving me a hard time not responding right away. I dont see how we will ever reconcile even if he had a complete change of heart. The man has no remorse for what he has done to me and has twisted everything in his head about what I am and everything I do so he can say look I tried to be nice.
