WAW....now the LBS

[HOPEFULinCALI]

SD,

I am truly sorry that we have to meet in this fashion. Did you do the LRT? Maybe your husband needs a wake up call, like I did, to realize what an amazing person he would be losing.

Of course I am interested in your perspective. As a former WAW I have a bit of understanding of how my husband feels, but not entirely. I thank you for offering your perspective. My DB coach said something similar. When I came back I was all to happy to let things be and not put in the work. That lasted all of a week before he dropped the bomb. I thought he should be happy, after all his months of trying, to have be back. She and now you, have helped my realize how incredibly selfish I was to expect such a thing after hurting him so deeply.

Just a few weeks after the bomb dropped I found DBing and have been DBing ever since. I hope there is a light at the end of the tunnel for us, you and all DBers. Believe me, I will put in 100% effort into my marriage and not just until we are on safer ground, but for a lifetime. I will never again take my husband or my responsibility for this marriage for granted. Thank you again.

All the best,

HIC