Well, went over to H's apartment. He just seems really down about everything. He is really stressed about getting a job and just everything in general I think. He seemed glad that I came over. I am glad that he felt comfortable enough to talk to me about it. I told him that I was there for him if he needed anything, and I really meant it.
In a way I know how he feels. When we got married I quit my job and moved to be with him. I was out of a job for four months and we were BROKE. I felt horrible and just kind of worthless. This was all with having nothing but support from H. He is trying to do this alone. I told him that he was there for me and I would be there for him now. He said it was his "job" to be there for me and I didn't owe him anything now. I told him that I am still his friend and I would do anything for him.
I do think he missed me this weekend. I am going to make him dinner tomorrow night. He seemed excited about that. So we had a good time tonight, just kind of hung out as friends. It was nice and seemed comfortable. There was a little bit of flirtation on his end...kind of nice to be flirted with.
I think you are right Michelle, seeing him did motivate me to DB.
