did Michele encourage you to attend w/your H? I to am facing a similar dilema. It seems to almost contradict DB principles to ask the WAS to go to an intensive, but I personally feel that if we could get there we may be able to turn the corner.
Brantacan,
I was also concerned that asking my husband to go would be perceived as pushing which is against DB principles. At this point though I feel that I have played all my cards and I need a resolution. I don't see my sitch getting making much more progress without Michele's help.
I told Michele that I was interested in attending with my husband and she asked if he was receptive to it. I replied that at first he said no and then said maybe. I asked him before talking to Michele for the first time then again after talking to Michele. After talking to Michele he then said he would go. She didn't say that he shouldn't go.
Personally speaking the book and coaches have helped me get to where I am without his participation, but I think my husband and I need to work together with Michele's expert advice to give us that extra push. Therefore, I wouldn't go on my own.
If you are interested you should contact Michele and ask her advice on how to approach the situation. Thank you for the kind words. I will respond to your other posts if I can be of help or just to provide support. I wish you the best of luck and I am here, as we all are, to support you.
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