Ok, I'll send the medal back to you right away!! Also, your English always makes sense to me!! I am so glad you just left out the word "only", you had me worried there for a minute!!
Your post helped me so much, thank you so much for taking the time to read TWICE and digest and respond so thoughtfully! But very often, the same characteristics that once attracted them in the first place, for some stupid reason become the ones that they can't handle anymore. It's like they get tired of the role THEY decided to play and feel they are being pushed, dominated,etc. etc. Kalni, this makes so much sense !! You are such a smart lady!!