Loving a WAS isn't easy

[mymonkeybug]

My H sounded very down when he spoke with the kids tonight on the phone. I can always hear everything since cell phones tend to amplify voices as you tend to yell into them. He has been sick with a head codl the last 3 days but his voice was something other than sick. He also asks both kids if they had fun with him yesterday and commented to D5 when she asked what he did today that he only had a couple cars to work on that the shop was really slow. I feel so badly for him during this crisis and wish to be able to help him but he doesn't want my help right now and I am still lovingly distancing myself.