I just wanted to send my thoughts your way. I think H is consumed by the guilt. So much he cant see anything else. My H is the same. I can relate. I dont think he is coming back either HE wont allow it us to move forward. Though he would keep coming over every week forever w/nothing further.

I pray that there is still hope for yall. Even if I dont have any for us. He is talking to about his feelings.


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010