My W said something to me a few months ago, one of our R talks, where we were reflecting back on the "junk" that got in our way. I thought about it after reading your posting about your FIL. She pointed out during our wedding vows we promise "in sickness and in health" - but noted that is not limited to our sickness or health. My mom and dad both has major surgeries a few years back and it was a trying time for our M.
You're a good husband craig. Keep supporting her and don't be a victim of the circumstances.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
