WOW I think my H is still freaked out about going "all the way" as you put it. In the summer he said he didn't want to give me false hope. H doesn't mind me getting him off though. He has said he will be doing more so I hope I can believe him. When I told him last week I felt used he said he wasn't using me. I would trust that your H was being honest about being sore.

Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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