Guess what? I decided to skip the naked thing in case it scared him off. Went to bed in a t-shirt AND flannel pajama pants b/c H wasn't home yet and I was cold. Thought I'd take the pants off when I warmed up but fell asleep instead. WELL...............
H came to bed and started fondling ME in MY sleep!!!
I woke up and he was spooning me w/his arm around me. I rolled over and said, "Oh you're home good"--it was 1:30 a.m. and he'd been running hay to Iowa all day and night. I took the pants off and rolled back over so he could spoon me. One thing led to another and we did it..................ALMOST??
For me, sorry if it's TMI, I have to "get there" before we are physically together b/c I don't "get there" just from us together, if you know what I mean. So he made sure I was "happy" and then we started "being together". Well, after a few minutes he seemed to be not so into it. Then he said he thought he pulled something, said "OW", and asked me (very nicely) to get off of him. I did of course but I felt really bad b/c I got to have my fun and he didn't get to finish having his. We haven't been "together" in 6 weeks so I suppose it is possible he really "pulled something"; it has happened before when we are overeager. But I am also a little afraid that maybe he had second thoughts about going "all the way".
On the plus side, he initiated all the intimacy,I was sound asleep; and he called me twice today and talked like things were normal. So I don't think he has a problem with me/us right now. Guess after loading and moving hay three days in a row and then getting a response from a wife who has been waiting for this chance, he maybe was a little bit sore???
I will just choose to enjoy the fact that he made the move on ME, and that he is continuing to call me today even if last night ended awkwardly. Actually, after we stopped and were going back to sleep I told him I'd return the favor tonight if he was feeling up for it then, and he said okay. So we'll see....
