Sandi2, in the http://www.womensinfidelity.com, my W is/was totally in stage 1, for the last 2 years or so. Physical touch would just make her very tight and anxious. This is why we started with the MC. But somehow, I screwed up and didn't make the exercises that the MC gave us as important as she did, so eventually the MC, just did T with W without me - which leads me to a potential future WAW. As far as I know, she hasn't moved to stage 2, but she has expressed feelings of desire about an old flame. (fortunately he is in another continent.) My question was did the book have any strategies to pull one out from this downward spiral?
Thanks for help, I really appreciate on contributions here.
