Wow! Someone that has been at this as long as me. I need your words of wisdom. Its been 1 yr 9 mos. Your right a roller coaster from hell. How did you get to the point that your H came home? What made him want to come back after all that time? My H is no closer. I told him today that he comes home or lets me go cause, Im done.

Your advice?


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010