Sometimes you surprise me, and this has been one of those times.
I disagree that I have the right to ask cac to change. He knows that I don't like the fact that he smokes, but it is up to him to decide to quit. I have the right to set boundaries pertaining to how the smoking impacts me.
I do agree that the senses play a huge role in sex. They play a huge role in life, in general for me.
And yes, I'm feeling more comfortable with the idea of, well, let's call it "postponing" sex.
At this point I don't care to discuss cac's smoking any further. I think I'm glad that I brought it up because I've gotten more insight into myself. I just hate the thought of beating a dead horse, kwim?
