I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

Ok H just called to say that he was still at work and the regional manager had not been by yet. I asked him how things went at work as last night he was all worked up to start a fight when he got there today. He said we can talk about it when I get home. I said I didn't realize you were coming home. He then said do you want me to? I didn;t say yes, I said last night you said you didn;t think that things could work because I would never forgive you, why do you want to come home? he said well I will come home to say goodnight to D4 then we can decide. Now I have put on the pot of chili I was supposed to make last night for super bowl - thank God I just typed that because I just realized that I had oil cooking on the stove ready to start a fire! My mind is lost these days. So my question is, when he comes if he wants to stay do I encourage it? Or do I give him a nice supper and send on his way back to his parents?