Lil Oh God, Lou, what a sad story... I'm so sorry.
Thanks Lil.
I was on my own or ignored most of the time till my mother met my step-dad, so was never really close to anyone but my mother. When I got older, I was closer to my brother but I lived with him he was also a father/big brother figure. People in his family were foster kids that came and went. I suppose lack of attachment or being a lost child comes to mind. I know I can be too attached at other times.
No, I wouldn't vote or not vote based on BB's opinion. I would see if what she said was valid but would vote who I thought was best for the job.
The church thing isn't about faith beliefs so much. Maybe when we die, that is it. I certainly have been exposed to some serious differences of opinion, too many for it all to make sense.
So many guys did the work to have the SB party. I am friendly with a couple of guys that are doers, get things done, I thought they deserve my support.
Re BB, I know support sometimes do/think my way, even if it is different, right, or wrong.