Just a quick update. I called H on my way home from work. He sounded really sad. I talked to him for a minute and then he asked about Mardi Gras. I finally said "are you ok?" ...Well, that wsa all it took. He broke down. I mean he was bawling. I think mainly about finding a job. But he was also saying he didn't know anybody here, he just felt depressed. I told him that I didn't ever call him to go out with me because I wasn't sure what he wanted. I told him that I didn't want to smother him. He said he felt like if I called him it was just out of pitty. I thought that was crazy. I told him that it was never out of pity but because I wanted to see him and spend time with him. Anyway, I asked him if he wanted me to come over and he said yes. I am about to go over there so I will update when I get back.
I guess I won't bring up the counseling. He is under a lot of stress right now and I don't want to be another one.
