Sox, That's great to have a hobby that you get paid for.
I'm glad to hear you're being intentional about rebalancing, and not being overly focused on taking care of other's needs, to the detriment of your own.
I think as you get stronger, you will be in a better position to deal with H. For now, I think he assumes it's "status quo" at home.
Tell us your desires. What do you want to do with your time and life. How would you like to spend the time you're going to spending on you?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
