Brit, You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. So I think you just stay consistent. It's her that is going up and down, not you or what you're doing. She is so unclear to you about what she wants, because she doesn't know what she wants. You keep doing what you're doing...I think it's working!
I think it's a great idea that you give her a key to your place...I don't think she'll ask for yours back.
Another C appmt? So she went ahead and rebooked for herself? That's great news. She may not talk to you about the sessions, but you'll probably start to see some changes in her behaviour as she works through some things in C. Try not to let her ups and downs affect you to much...stay steady! Congrats on the new place. Hope it feels like home already. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
