One day dad’s dad and mother decided it was time to see my dad/mother/GKs. On the way there dad’s dad pulled out in front of a car at an intersection. There was a collision and dad’s mother was killed. This happened before I was born, maybe 1935~9ish. I always remember that when someone in the family gets miffed. At the age of 5 when I heard the story, I knew what I would have done. I wouldn’t have let it get that bad.
Oh God, Lou, what a sad story... I'm so sorry.
At the age of FIVE, you were smarter than BB is now. Think about it.
You certainly aren't obliged to "support" HER by doing something that goes against your values, conscience, and judgment. If you wanted to go to church and she was against it, and said that by going against her wishes you weren't supporting her, would you buy that. What if she said she didn't want you to vote, and that by voting, you weren't supporting her?
She probably wants you to "support" her in this position about visiting because she knows she's all wet and that she's all alone in this position.
