Sounds like a plan has come together. I am really thinking of you...
Originally Posted By: dry_heat
I'm sure she will be caught off guard, she'll probably gointo shock. I think (and I realize I am making assumptions here)she is comfortable with things, even though she knows I am unhappy. So, I think it is time for here to face that. If she doesn't want to, I am prepared to move on. I want to be married to her, but we are not now!
You deserve to be happy, and it sounds like you ARE making the decision to do this from a place of love and peace. Totally rooting for you!