Lil You don't owe it to BB to sit in the leaky boat with her while it sinks. [b] I didn’t want ( our R) to make the leaks bigger, but felt that not going was more of a disservice to the family and GKs.
LS [b] life is too short. Zackly!
Lil I didn't know ANY of my four grandparents I met both of my GF’s a couple of times. Their W were already dead.
My dad and his dad didn’t visit each other for several years because of some money/rent/ my parents owed his dad.
One day dad’s dad and mother decided it was time to see my dad/mother/GKs. On the way there dad’s dad pulled out in front of a car at an intersection. There was a collision and dad’s mother was killed. This happened before I was born, maybe 1935~9ish. I always remember that when someone in the family gets miffed. At the age of 5 when I heard the story, I knew what I would have done. I wouldn’t have let it get that bad.
BB is absolutely full of cr@p on this point. So, is this a Charmin moment. Bad joke maybe?
Mrs. Cac but I didn't out of loyalty to my mother. I picked sides. I would like to be more loyal to BB but I an not willing to pick sides because it is the adults that have issues, not the GK
Mrs. Cac, if you had it to do over, would you have visited your GM?.
I think one can have a R with someone and not rub it in with the opposing parties. No hiding anything but keeping a low profile is the way I do things.
BB said I don't support her but in this case the more important thing is not to abandon the GKs.
