I'm glad I was able to read up on your situation as you've been very supportive of me during my brief time on the boards.
My W was very similar to your H as she said "the only reason you have any chance at all is because of our D. If she wasn't in the picture, you'd be gone already."
It is encouraging to see that your DBing has been very influential in turning your H's attitude around somewhat. My W won't consider MC and I'm very concerned about that because I think her T is one of those who will want to make me the villian and encourage her to leave.
In any event, thanks for supporting my thread and I'll continue to check in with you to see if there is any way I can help you as well.
