Once again, thanks bf2 and jeanette1120 for you posts...it really helped me get my head on straight for the past few days.
I do think WAW took a peek out of the castle but ran back inside before I got a clue.
Reflecting on changes in sitch over last month or so...
Positives - she is not angry, nor that screaming/yelling thing she did, friendlier, cordial, and allows me in her house.
No change - Communication is minimal and that's stretching it.
Undecided - WAW seems down/depressed. Her bulletin board with an index card for each letter of her name with a quality of hers is an example. Also, losing friends and no money add to her life not going as planned...I guess that's a bit positive.
Recent Revelation - she told me about 3 weeks ago, that she thought I had a chance when we first separated. Which tells me it really has nothing to do with anything prior to separation. It is really about her. Thus, no need to say anything about past ever, unless she brings it up.
Current Plan - 1) Maintain "structured darkness" plan, 2) Find more things to do different
First Do different - Pick-up 5D everyday from school when WAW is unable and drop-off to WAW's when she is off work. WAW was getting MIL to pick-up. It'll be interesting WAW reaction. I just put it on the schedule that I was doing it. I asked 2 months ago but allowed WAW to do as she wanted trying to be just agreeable...which probably just showed a weak doormat.
