Still DBing for my own sake.........and getting better at it with each day. Driving W nuts with how civil and normal things are..........I think she misses the conflict because without it she realises that I have moved on and have no emotional attachment to her anymore.
Andy- I want to be in a place of peace like you sound like you've gotten to. Not that there aren't still difficult times, but you sound peaceful. I wanted to say that I think my H gets upset with me for being civil and not having conflict too. Wow, how he stepped closer to me this weekend after I went off and did my own things without calling him. I have no doubts that he still wants out, but I think he's still mucked up in a lot of confusion.
She's missing out on a great guy with you!!
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 02/04/0808:56 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
