How do I begin piecing??

[MichelleLT]

Well, sounds like it may be worth asking him about it in that case. Does he have particular times he might be more receptive? Just a thought, but waiting til the job thing is nailed down might be helpful.

Working out sounds like a great idea. That always makes me feel good, as does hanging out with my H when we can be friendly, so it sounds like a winning combination.