Rebalance my life........... focus my energy more on what I really need to do and want to do; take more time out for me, put me first instead of last

Working........... I work on Saturday because that is part of my second job. I work on Sunday to make extra money and if the gym has a birthday party scheduled that I have to run. I coach private lessons on Sunday mornings for extra money (cash payments.) They pay for D's $230 a month tuition at the gym. During Feb, March and April I will make around $600 cash each month after paying her tuition- just from private lessons. I'm in high demand during this time- word gets out that I rock and girls want to make Varsity cheer and they need to know how to flip so they come to me. 98% of girls who do private tumble lessons with me make the HS squad the first time around. IT's sort of like my hobby, and it tends to give me a boost of confidence - plus a boost to the wallet. I already have 20 private lessons booked for February- and 10 into March.

Provoking me..........yup- he's doing it on purpose. He said he did it in the past and he's doing it again.

Yes he understands what I expect- he just thinks my expectations are too high and therefore does things how he wants to and then thinks he still did it to help me.

Number 1 thing????? H can really and truely show respect and consideration toward me and the kids.

you betcha I"m frustrated. \:\)

When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007

7/1/05 Bomb
7/20/05 H moves out
2.5 years of Rollercoaster
10/30/07 H moves back home