Thanks, Amy! Your opinion means a lot to me! I'm thinking of asking her, but telling her not to asnwer til the next day....on the other hand, she is really good at planning arguments, so I dont' know that that is a great plan. I probably more interested in her real feelings, not in what she can come up with overnight. I'm sure there will be discussion the next day too, if we are both still alive and in the house!
I'm sure she will be caught off guard, she'll probably gointo shock. I think (and I realize I am making assumptions here)she is comfortable with things, even though she knows I am unhappy. So, I think it is time for here to face that. If she doesn't want to, I am prepared to move on. I want to be married to her, but we are not now!
