Hey Brit! I'm home w/ D10 today as she is coming down w/ something. I am certainly not the one to tell you if you are doing things right or not. I have a heard time not inviting my H to dinner when it isn't his night w/ the Ds. My C pointed out that it is really hard for him to say no. I try not to invite him to do things outside of the house. If he plans something w/ the Ds I make the assumption it is without me. I think your W helping you w/ the house is very positive. At the very least it shows that she is willing to be your friend.
Our D has got into the routine of waking up every night at 2am - She'll be WIDE AWAKE and want to play. Last night she was up from 2-5, which was pretty stressful for both of us.
Not sure about my W and the invitations - She has said no in the past, so I figure if she doesn't want to go, she'll say no. She always seems pretty happy when we go out together, or at least, she has recently.
Originally Posted By: lizzy
When do you plan to start sleeping at your house?
My plan was to start living there tonight - Since tonight is W's night with D, I figured I'd have time to myself and I wouldn't feel like I was 'leaving W'. I'd just leave for work from her house, then go home to mine.
Of course, nothing is ever that simple :-) I might have D stay with me tonight and let W get a good nights sleep. Hopefully she'll hang out at my house for a while and we can get some stuff done once D is asleep, but who knows...
