Loving a WAS isn't easy

[mymonkeybug]

You know I was just starting on our income tax return and in sitting here going over everything I had a thought or two.

These WAS's give no thought to the financial ramifications of waslking out. For instance my H I don't think has thought about how much child support and possible alimony will cost him and that he probably won't have enough left over to have a place of his own which in turn means never having the kids for sleepovers and weekends, etc... Nor do they I think give any thought to the glorious income tax returns you get when you own a home and get to deduct all that mortgage interest. Certainly if H and I divorce the house would HAVE to be sold and there goes our nice hefty little return every year. My H for instance has always had me handle bill paying, tax returns, grocery shopping, all that type of stuff. He wouldn't have a clue where to begin if I am out of the picture, hell he is still asking me to do stuff as simple as picking up a new cell phone battery for his cell phone. I have always made his Dr. appts., handled all important phone calls he needed to have made, etc...he really has no idea how to live life on his own in regards to finances or just basic every day stuff like what I have mentioned above.