Confusion of a WAW (Thread 6)

[bhopeful]

I have no clue if I'm doing the right things or not anymore - Sometimes I think I'm doing the wrong thing (e.g. asking her out for dinner), and it turns out to be a good for us. Sometimes I do what I think is the 'right thing', giving her space and independence, and she gets mad because I'm not helping her.

Well, if you were to experiment and monitor the results, what works for you? As long as you can be around her without putting pressure on her to in a R, then I think you're doing the right thing. You have to do what works for you. Each situation is unique and needs to be handled differently.

Do what works and stop what doesn't and you'll soon find yourself in a better place.