I say this with the deepest respect to you and many others that have posted; why is it that so many think eventually my H (and so many others) will eventually want to reconcile? From what I have seen, even here on this BB, most do not return. Even some of the "old timers" that post advice here are still not reconciled. So I do not understand the line of thinking that "in his time", he will be back.
((((((((((((((((((Hope))))))))))))))))
It's a crap shoot isn't it?
Javier has told me everything that your H has told you.
He even cried at our Divorce hearing for God's sake.
But in the end, we are Divorced. Is he ever really going to come back?
Jesus, who knows, but I'm not gonna waste away trying to find out.
Your H right now, can't do this.
Will he ever do this?
Jesus, who knows, I don't want you to waste away trying to find out, and you won't.
You are in school, you are GAL, you are praying about this, you are a wonderful dear friend to me and to many others.
You have a wonderful family.
You stand for your self sweet heart. And you know that, and You are going to be fine.
We can vent about being upset, and missing our H's. Ofcourse it is natural.
But for the most part, you are being realistic about your situation, and making healthy choices.
Luv ya
NO ONE IS saying don't stand for your marriage, I cringe when i see it posted.
I feel like it is so personal, to stand or not.
That is within you, and it is about you. And NO one else can make that decision for you, or try to sway you in any direction.
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
