Priorities and tests of strength

[Burgbud]

(hap) If someone put my H, my dad, my kids and my sister into a room and said they were going to shoot them but I could save one of them would you expect me to choose my H?

Kids always come first.

Let me rephrase it: if my wife's H (i.e. me), her sister and her dad all had heart attacks at the same time, I would expect her to come to the hospital and support me rather than her sister or her dad.

You're not my wife so you can do whatever you want. It's interesting to me that for you, getting married places the spouse on the same level as a sibling or parent. That wouldn't work for me.


Don't ever ask me to choose between them.

I'm not the one doing the asking.

ETA:

(Lil) Burg, you come across as pretty resentful, and very much into score-keeping.

Okay. Of whom do you see me being resentful?