The thing about my H is that he has always been a talker. He has always talked about his feelings. I am more the one to hold them in. H always used to have to work to get me to open up about things. I think that always bothered him about me. I actually think the counseling would be more for ME to be able to talk about things in a better way. The one we went to just seemed to really be able to help me put my feelings into words. Also, my H talked a lot during counseling. He even said he liked it at the time.
I don't think he would get hostile. I think he would just simply say ok or that he wasn't ready. If I had to bet, I would bet that he will say he doesn't have the energy to focus on that until he finds a job, which I could live with. I just have to remember what you said...no justifications and no convincing talk.
I will call him after work today. I will probably just see if he wants to go workout with me.
