Law, the challenge is that you are a nice guy. Your wife is messed up, not you. You have given me awesome advice over the past year, I hope this advice is equal measure. Do not allow her actions to result in your reaction that you would regret over time. She has hurt you terribly but do not do something that goes against your character. Stay strong my friend.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
