Thanks for the replies.

I want to make sure I am going into this with confidence and knowledge.

The old me would have cried and fallen apart.(kinda did that this morning when H left for work :()

I just want thim to know that I am not going for anymore than what I need.

This is just so ugly.

E

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......