No C at all for him - he won't go. He doesn't think he has a problem. It was a miracle that he went to Retrouvaille. And i guess that's the crux of it all - if he doesn't think our M is broken than why would he try to fix anything. Meanwhile, I think our M is broken and it is because I would like an intimate R with my H - perhaps he just isn't able to have one. That is something that I have been thinking about lately. Perhaps he just can't. Maybe more accurately, he doesn't *want* to be intimate. Can it be that he just isn't secure enough with himself? Is this psycho-bable? Am I making excuses. Shouldn't he be ABLE to do this? WANT to do this? He had no problem with OW - except for the guilt (he said).
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Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
