I've been to one wedding since the bomb dropped too. It sucks. I left when they were doing their first dance because I started bawling.
That must've been very exhausting emotionally. No wonder you are feeling down about the whole stitch right now.
The whole point of the DBing is to get back to that point, not to settle for being with someone who merely doesn't want to get D. It just takes time.
Have you talked to him since you got back? Since he seems to be comfortable with you guys talking more frequently you might give him a call and talk about all the fun you had.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2