I did ask for what she was looking for. I said you need to tell me what it is you want and need and give it some opportunity to see if I can fulfill that. she agreed that she may never know, but doesn't think I can.
she still hasn't told me what it is....I think the LL book would be important, but she doesn't want to read it because that would be "working on it" and doesn't want to potentially change her mind and lose face with everyone shes told. I still think shes out to proove something...that she can do it.
